Couple, Depression/Anxiety, Training Notes

Divorce, Co-Parenting, and Mental Health

divorce and mental health

I am currently at the National Council on Family Relationship 2017 conference (11/16). Today, I attended a session about changes in the family system.

The changes in the family system are either adding the members or losing the members. The focus of the session I attended was divorce. For any children who are minor, it means that you either lose a father or mother in your residence. After the divorce, if the parents are remarried, a child gains a stepparent in the family system.

There were four papers presented, discussing the factors influencing co-parenting decisions, the impact on the children’s development, and the mental health issues due to the divorce.

The ideas of “gatekeeping,” “gender role,” “divorce” and “mental health” comes to my mind. Here are some takeaway points. For your information, you might want to read the entry about “Divorce & Co-Parenting” before continue to read this entry,

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Couple, Training Notes

Divorce & Co-Parenting

divorce and coparentingI am currently at the National Council on Family Relationship 2017 conference (11/16). Today, I attended a session about changes in the family system.

The changes in the family system are either adding the members or losing the members. The focus of the session I attended was divorce. For any children who are minor, it means that you either lose a father or mother in your residence. After the divorce, if the parents are remarried, a child gains a stepparent in the family system.

There were four papers presented, discussing the factors influencing co-parenting decisions, the impact on the children’s development, and the mental health issues due to the divorce.

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Couple, Depression/Anxiety, Training Notes

Depression and Marital Satisfaction

Depression & Marital Satisfaction

I am currently in Orlando for National Council on Family Relation Annual Conference (2017). This entry is a summary and reflection on a presentation related depression and marital satisfaction (11/15/2017). There were four presenters and two of them specifically research on the depression and marital satisfaction/sexual satisfaction.

One of the papers researched on the secure attachment style and its impact on the couple interaction and the co-parenting conflicts with children less than 1-year-old.

The research findings got me to think about my clinical practices and what I have seen in my couples.

It is not surprising that depression and marital satisfaction are negatively correlated to each other. That is, the higher the depression, the lower the marriage satisfaction. However, which caused what?

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EMDR, Training Notes

EMDR Basic Training Weekend 1 (Part 3): Clinical Implication

Clinical Scenario # 1: What cause PTSD?EMDR 3-1

For years, when I was reading the research on childhood sexual abuse and PTSD, the research cannot define it is the “abuse” or “lack of care/concern from the caregiver” causing PTSD. That is, we don’t know whether it is the “abuse” itself causing PTSD, or it is because the adult didn’t provide the protection that caused PTSD.

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EMDR, Training Notes

EMDR Basic Training Weekend 1 (Part I)

EMDR 1Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is the training I have wanted to go for years! I am so excited to finish the part 1 of the first training and here are my notes and my reflection on my clinical work from the training. The part I of the notes is my very basic understanding of the theory.

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